Impacting Positively

Hello readers, as promised I am back with the concluding article on Beautiful Woman. Today, we will be  starting with a look at INTELLIGENCE.  A beautiful woman is intelligent in a number of ways and not just academically. She makes wise decisions from the littlest of things to the biggest. She carefully examines every move she is about to make. Her intelligence helps her excell at school, work and in building personal relationships with people. She uses this intelligence to also help those around her by giving proper solicited advice. GOOD FINANCIAL MANAGEMENT SKILLS  A beautiful woman has good financial management skills not because she is rich but because she is frugal with her earnings. Her ability to manage her finances well make her a 'boss lady'. RESPECTFUL  A beautiful woman is respectful. In being respectful she is not partial. She respects both her juniors and seniors. She recognizes the fact that being respectful takes absolutely nothing away from her...

Today,I will be focusing on five types of friends that we need to beware of.These are those who claim to be friends but are actually enemies. 1. ALWAYS ASKING NEVER GIVING.  Some friends have the habit of always asking for favours but when called upon for help, they always have the perfect excuse as to why they cannot help. Such people subtly send us the message that they are only hanging around us because of what they are benefitting from us. The moment you cannot help them, they leave! So, you need to let go.  2. ALWAYS RECEIVING NEVER APPRECIATING. When a friend never shows appreciation for gifts and favours, you need to be careful. It could be that the friend does not value you and your sacrifices. 3. ALWAYS COMPLAINING NEVER ENCOURAGING.  Do you have friends who do nothing but complain about how bad things always are? You need to beware. People who constantly complain and never encourage you are dangerous. They dampen your spirit, bring you down and fail to ...

Today, I am writing about the beauty of the female gender because I have noticed that most times, many of us miss out on the basic elements that relate to beauty. So, let us look at some of the qualities of a truly beautiful woman.   First, she is not necessarily beautiful physically. Shocked? Well, in my opinion a beautiful woman does not compulsorily possess showstopping curves neither is she extraordinarily gorgeous. Why? It is because the outward appearance is but a cover. Take for example a beautifully decorated cake,no doubt it looks appealing but what really matters is its ingredients and mixture. Therefore we will be looking at two ingredients of a beautiful woman.   SUGAR   A beautiful woman should be sweet at heart and this encompasses a lot from being caring to maintaining a positive spirit. The opposite of being sweet is being bitter. When a woman is bitter, she does not bring happiness to those around her but is either constantly complaining or starting ...

One of the greatest insults a man can ever receive is not one that is verbally expressed or written. It is DONE.   Today most of us fail to realise the fact that disrespecting people's time is a very very hurtful thing. I for one would never agree to go on a date with a man who has a habit of not being on time, neither will I delight in meeting up with people whose routine is coming late. For one thing, it is impossible to never be late at all but then it is possible to be known as one who is always on time.  Of course, there are instances when we tend to run late due to some circumstances beyond our control but we can show that we respect the people we are dealing with. HOW? Simple!!! APOLOGIZE Always apologize when you are late. DO NOT REPEAT LATECOMING If you are late once, do not repeat it again. This sends a message out that the previous latecoming was a mistake and is not habitual. APOLOGIZE ONCE AGAIN.

You will never get ahead in life if you keep  looking back trying to bring someone down.

I am quite certain that nobody likes being unappreciated. We love being Na gode(ed) /ese(d)/ Nde ewo(d). Simply put, we love being thanked. However, most of us are quilty of failing to appreciate the most beautiful things oflife.    We fail to appreciate the trees who give us oxygen, the roadside cleaners who keep our streets clean just to mention a few. You see, no matter how irrelevant a person may be, he/she needs to be appreciated.  If you think you're not guilty of being unappreciative I want us to consider a few examples. First, there are those of us who do nothing but yell and complain at everything. Nothing unappreciative about that? Well, think about a child born dumb, unable to speak then think of those who can but not intelligibly. The majority of these people will do anything just to speak yet some of us do not appreciate this gift.   I hear tons of complaints everyday from youths who nag about not having the latest shoes, they forget that there are pe...