Today,I will be focusing on five types of friends that we need to beware of.These are those who claim to be friends but are actually enemies.
1. ALWAYS ASKING NEVER GIVING.
Some friends have the habit of always asking for favours but when called upon for help, they always have the perfect excuse as to why they cannot help. Such people subtly send us the message that they are only hanging around us because of what they are benefitting from us. The moment you cannot help them, they leave! So, you need to let go.
2. ALWAYS RECEIVING NEVER APPRECIATING.
When a friend never shows appreciation for gifts and favours, you need to be careful. It could be that the friend does not value you and your sacrifices.
3. ALWAYS COMPLAINING NEVER ENCOURAGING.
Do you have friends who do nothing but complain about how bad things always are? You need to beware. People who constantly complain and never encourage you are dangerous. They dampen your spirit, bring you down and fail to help you actualise your dreams. When you continue rolling with such people, you become like them. ALWAYS COMPLAINING.
4.ALWAYS AGREEING NEVER DISAGREEING.
Real friends do not always agree with you. When you are wrong they tell you ! If a friend always agrees with you, there is a problem. It is absolutely impossible for you to be right at all times that is why you need friends who will always correct you. Most times when friends do not disagree with you to your face, they may be doing so behind you.
5. ALWAYS PERFECT
People who always portray themselves as the best and put others down are obviously selfcentered. What do you need such people for? Nothing!. They agree only with one opinion and that is theirs. If a friend does not count you as someone relevant, let go.
Most times, we find ourselves constantly feeling lonely despite being surrounded by people we call friends. The problem could just be that you have the wrong set of people as friends.
However, when you find real friends who do not possess any of these traits, hold them tight.
Am glad I found a friend in u sis #hugs.
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ReplyDeleteSame here sis
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ReplyDeleteGot a lot of friends but just a handful are real friends....nice writeup Winnie even tho we're not exactly friends
ReplyDeleteKeep only Jesus as a friend if u want to survive , everyone has his or her shortcomings .
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