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Quarrels

Hello hello dear readers, what's up? I guess I'm in a really good mood today just I just thought I'd share something funny(maybe not so funny) with you. Well the other day I was on twitter and got hold of a very funny twit fight between two ladies. Obviously one was against Bruce Jenner's sex change (I'll write about that soon) and the other was in support. Long story short! I just want to talk about how our character affects the quarrels we have and how real mature people should handle quarrels.
  Well I'm a lover of quotes and proverbs so I'll start off with this quote from Andre Gide "Most quarrels amplify a misunderstanding" You see dear friend, when people quarrel they do so because they do not agree on the same thing or because they do not even understand the other person's view. So what am I saying? As the well brought up person that you are :) (no flattering here) try as much to understand where your co-quarreler is coming from because you see, quarrels only compound the problem.
 One last thing I want you to also know is that it takes two too tangle. What am I saying? A quarrel is impossible if one party is absent or shall I say " a quarrel soon ends when one party deserts it" so dear reader, when you sense quarrel breeding somewhere, take your leave if the other party's spirit is too hot at the time to settle things calmly.
 By the way , I think Bruce Jenner's sex change is something *****. LOL, mail me to know what I think :D

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