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It Could Have Been Anybody

Hello readers, what's up? I'm sure you people know I'm not a gossip blogger but damn! I just had to say something about this Toke's issue. Now I'm really pained because people are blaming the lady. Fine, maybe she might have been at fault, I don't know but is that what she needs right now? Name calling and blames? I normally do not take sides when it comes to controversial issues but you see this one? I'm taking sides with Toke not because she is a lady but because she was wronged!
 Everybody on twitter seems to think cheating is normal for men and quite honestly, that statement goes far in showing the magnitude of complacency that has taken over some people's sense of reasoning. For those who don't know, there is something called a Marriage Vow where you pledge faithfulness to your mate. But then you know the funny part? People have turned the 'for better for worse' against Toke saying she must remain married but nobody told the husband that he should have remain faithful for better for worse o (silly people). I am angry! Yes, infact! I will post this article without proof reading because my blood is 'hot' right now.
   For those who seem to have a bible but do not read it, do you know that the bible allows for divorce on the grounds of adultery? I am not kidding you, read Matthew 5:32. You know it's easy to laugh and point hands at Toke saying she was overly pursuing her career and that can make a man feeling threatened, some are saying she makes up too much but excuse me, was he blind? Didn't he see all that before getting married? Don't get me wrong o, i'm not a die hard Toke fan, in fact I don't follow her on any social network, the only celeb I'm totally for is Genevieve :D Yes that's true. While Toke might have had her own share of mistakes in this, I believe the truth should be said. What is bad is bad! Don't tell me cheating is natural, I will deal with you! If it were your mother you won't take it so easy. And to all those ladies saying she was giving advice when her home was bleeding, let me tell you that her advice is not out of place. I had to go check some out this morning and for real, she says reasonable things. This could have happened to anybody, she just got unfortunate.
  I also remember writing a poem a while ago that women are the number one architect of other women's problems. You see it now? Why, I mean WHY? Should you be co-owning a man? He even has a wife! That's the height of wickedness o. If he loves you so much then he should have married you. Anyways, one part of me tells me that this is a lie, a trick or a publicity stunt! If it ends up being one, LOL I 'll be angry but then, relieved.

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