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Fear

Dear Readers, after a season of poems, I am back to my freestyle writing. Today, I write on something everybody tries hard to walk away from and that is FEAR.
 Due to the strong grip it has on people which sometimes prevents people from doing things, Fear is an unwanted visitor in the average Nigerian home. Countless articles have been written on how to control and in some cases, eradicate it. Fear they say is bad but I say it is good.
 For one thing, it is the very presence of fear that makes man aware of his faults and pushes him to productivity. If you are afraid of failing, you are more likely to double your efforts.
 Also, fear adds spice to life. Fear is always accompanied by uncertainty and this is a vital flavour. Imagine a world without fear where every man is so sure of the next minute, it will be boring.
 Finally, fear creates a cordial bond between humans. When a person is afraid, he seeks protection from other humans and a relationship is established.
 Without fear, there will be no competition, conflict or twists in life. Humans most likely will have a shallow sense of what it means to value others or properties for it is the very fear of losing such things that makes them special.
 Thanks for reading!

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